This verse and the one above go hand in hand. The word “exasperate” means to provoke to intense anger and frustration.
While being put in timeout might make your child mad for a little while, exasperation is different. For example, you might exasperate your little one by speaking negatively about them while they sit in timeout.
Exasperation is something we must avoid when raising our little ones. Why? Intense anger, frustration and irritation often lead to sin.
Sin is serious business as it leads to death (Romans 6:23) and separation from our Heavenly Father. As parents, we must move in love toward our children, being careful not to push them to sin.
This verse instructs us to instead bring our kids up in the training and instruction of the Lord. We must teach them God’s ways and correct them gently but firmly when necessary, using the truth found in God’s Word.
Will we get it right every single time? No. But even those times are critical teaching moments for your children. Admit when you’re wrong to your kids (James 5:16). Actively forgive them and let your anger go (Matthew 6:14-15).
Your response when you make a mistake is just as powerful as your response when you don’t.
9. Ephesians 4:32